When you have lost the man you love, it is easy to sit alone and remember the way things were when he loved you. You go over and over them as if you were looking at a picture album. With every page you turn in your memory you want your ex back more. You keep looking at the phone and hoping he will call and tell you he loves you and wants you back.

None of this is productive and you are only making yourself desperate. Then comes the panic and you think he might already have found someone else. At this point you are in a very dangerous position because this is when you start calling him and scream that you cannot live without him. These kind of actions will drive him away for good. If you want him to love you again , stop thinking about your ex boyfriend and take steps to get your man back in your life. This does not mean that you should be chasing him crying and begging for him to listen to your vows of undying love. It means that you need to take steps that are proven to make an ex boyfriend want you again like crazy.

This might seem like an odd way to get your ex back, but the first thing you have to do is let him go. Not forever, but just for a few weeks. He has to have time to experience his life without you and begin to miss you. The only way this will happen is if you make yourself scarce and stay out of his sight. This will not be easy for you because right now he is like an addiction to you. You feel that if you cannot be with him life is not worthwhile. You are going to have to kick the habit of being always available to your ex boyfriend .

A person can get too much of anything. You might love a certain type of food, but if you have only that same food, day after day you become tired of it. This could be what happened with your relationship. You made yourself too available and your ex became too accustomed to you and took you for granted. He became bored and decided to look around and see what else was available. To get him back, you need to make him hungry for you again. The best way to make someone crave something is to make it not available to them. That is why you need to stay away from the man you love until he is so hungry for you that the sight of you will make him wild.

This can be so easy that you will not believe something so simple can work to such perfection. All you have to do is ignore your guy and act as if you are accepting the breakup and moving on. Go out with friends and have a good time. Your ex boyfriend will hear of this and wonder why you are not trying to get him back. When you go out make sure you always look your best because he will find a way of running in to you and when he does you will get your man back in your life .