Every woman dreams of finding true love and it is heart breaking to realize you had it in your grasp and let it go. During a relationship it is easy to become so accustomed to your partner that you begin taking them for granted. You also become irritated at small things they do and complain about it. These small complaints can sometime balloon into a big argument and you both decide it would be better to go your separate ways. It is only then that you see that he was the only man for you and you had let true love slip through your fingers.

Realizing that you have lost the love of your life will make you desperate to get him back. This is where more mistakes happen and you may ruin any chance you had of reuniting with him. This comes from following your instincts and almost trying to force your man to love you again. Chasing him, crying and demanding that he listen to you will not endear you to him. He will only see a woman that he is happy to be away from. To make him fall in love with you again and want you back in his arms, you have to give him a reason.

Just as you might have become too sure of your ex boyfriend during the relationship, he might have taken you for granted too. You were always available and the two of you did the same old things. Went to the same places and saw the same people. You were sure of each others love and life became boring. This could have caused the breakup and right now your ex is still sure that you love him. If you want him back, it will be necessary to shake him up and make him wonder if you still love him.

Your ex boyfriend fell in love with you in the first place because he was attracted to you. He saw a happy confident woman that was probably unavailable to him. This grabbed his interest and aroused the hunter gene in him. He saw you as a challenge and the chase to get you was on. To get him back, become that woman again. Show him that you are still self confident and that you can live without him just as you were before you met him. To do this, you need to disappear for a while. Drop off his radar entirely. Stay away from him for a few weeks and let him wonder what happened to you.

During this time, think of yourself and your own needs. Go to a good salon and get a new hairstyle and a tan. Then go shopping for new outfits that will accent your new hair style and tan. When you are all dressed in your new look and looking irresistible, go out with friends and have a good time. But you will also have a purpose in mind. Make sure you stop by the places your ex boyfriend hangs out and let him get a good look at you. Since he has had time to begin to miss you, when he sees you looking so great, he will fall in love with you again at once .