If you have just went through a breakup, you are probably asking yourself, "Can I get my ex boyfriend back" a dozen times a day. Every relationship is different as well as every break up. However, there are a few things you can do to get him back.

The first thing to do is to be nice.

A lot of people think that nagging is the best way to get whatever they want. To be honest, it's not. If you complain or nag, you're just reminding him why he wanted to get away from you. If you make things difficult and uncomfortable every time you're around him, he will only push you further from him.

The last thing you want to do is to make him not want to be around you. So, make sure you are as pleasant as you can be when you see him. Unless you feel that you have to be totally fake around him.

If you are asking yourself, "can I get my ex boy friend back by pretending to be this way or that way". You should then ask yourself why you want to be with him anyway. You're probably better off finding someone to be with if you have to pretend to be someone else around your ex.

If you are able to be nice and pleasant around him, then the problems, no matter what they were, won't seem nearly as important as they were. You will probably wonder why you weren't more nice and pleasant when you two were together.

You can't change the past, so be sure to remember that later on when you are back together. You should point that out to him and let him know that you took him for granted back then. He probably did it to you too, but don't expect him to tell you now.

Be careful of some of the other things you might be thinking about trying. It can be turn out to be a disaster.

Here are some other questions you might be asking yourself:

Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a girlfriend?

This is one of the hardest situations to overcome. It's going to be difficult trying to be alone with him. And he's probably focused on the new relationship, anyway. To him, you are part of the past and not a priority to him anymore. So, being nice right now is crucial for you. You have to make him see how great you are and show him what he's missing.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?

It doesn't matter how you are thinking about tricking him, even if it isn't harmful, don't do it. Even the most innocent lie or trick could backfire in your face. What's the point in getting him back if you are going to lose him again because he found out that you lied and tricked him?

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?

This is a great question that a lot of women ask. Is it possible? Yes. But it could backfire and make him think that you don't want him and that you have moved on. If you really want to date someone else, do so at your own risk. It's ok to do it if you want to be happy. But take note that it could cause your ex to move on.

Also, if you are thinking about making him jealous by going out with someone else, it's not really fair to your date or even to you. Little games like this don't work. It only make things worse. So, be honest with yourself. You will have a better chance of getting back with your ex.

These are just some of the beginning steps to getting your ex back. They're the initial stepping stones I followed to get back the love of my life. And to be honest, they're not my original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub Jackson when I wanted to get my true love back