No one ever handed us a guide book when we first started dating that taught us how to handle a breakup.  Even more on how to get someone back after a breakup. If you want your guy back, better read the following tips.

1.Stop feeling sorry for yourself.  You have to be willing to be strong.  Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down.  You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear.

2.The past is gone.Recognize the fact that things will never be quite the same again. Focus on what is going on now.  Remember you are most likely glossing over all the bad stuff that happened. If you broke up, it's because your past relationship had problems. Start again.

3.Don't be desperate.You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while.  Don't continuously call him, text message him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. This is important, not giving him enough space to start missing you will make it harder on things in the long run.

4.Become a new you.When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside.  By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy.  When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others.

5.Healing takes time.Keep your physical contact with him to the minimum.  But when he does see you looking your best and seeing that you've become confident and happy, it will make him desire you.  If you limit your physical contact with him, this will drive him crazy.