Trying to get a girlfriend back can be daunting at best. Trying to get her back when she knows that is exactly what you are doing, well, that can be a NIGHTMARE. When she knows that your main drive is to win her back, she can instantly put up a wall and shut you out without even thinking twice about it. You need to be subtle if you are going to win back your girlfriend.

There are lots of horror stories of men trying to get back a girlfriend, only to have her turn around and kind of play a game with her ex boyfriend. You don't want to end up getting played, you want to end up with your ex girlfriend back in your arms and back in your life.

Here are some techniques to get a girlfriend back that should help out:

1. You need to work under her radar by acting as if you are more than okay with the breakup.If she thinks that you are perfectly fine with things the way that they are, then she is not likely to want to put up that wall. Then, you can start to work your magic and woo her back into your life. Don't be obvious and make her seem to think you are cool with everything and she won't suspect a thing.

2. You need to be able to look at your ex girlfriend like she is a woman you are meeting for the first time.When you first are with a woman, there are no hang ups present. You don't get all jealous and make accusations of her. And you certainly don't do anything at all that will keep you from seeing her again. This is the same way that you have to act with your ex girlfriend.

3. You need to be able to make her start wondering about getting back with you.The more you can entice HER to think about getting back together, the easier it will be for you. You will not have the resistance that is so common and she will be a lot more OPEN to hearing you out when the time is right. She might even end up being the one that suggests getting back together with you.