Once in everyone's lives, their heart gets to be broken once. So what should I fret about when my person leaves me, well in fact, it happens to everyone else? Getting your heart broken is not a disease, but is just a temporary condition that would soon fade away. To treat that condition, what I can possibly do is to just accept it and sulk my days away, OR, I can try having it fixed by getting the person I love back.
Getting anyone else ex back is not a simple walk in the park. But if ever this thought would cross my mind, the first thing I would ask myself is, do I really want this? Would I really want to? Why would I have to? If the answer is yes, and the reasons are just because you don not want to be alone, or you miss being cuddled and kissed, then think again. You can have all those things with other people. And thinking that no one would like you the same way that he had liked you is such a big losers reason. You do not get someone to be with you so they could treat you the way you wanted.
Well, after you have decided to proceed with the idea, then next thing I would have is a plan. Getting someone back is not as simple as spreading butter over your toast. It must be planned thoroughly, complete with the crisis analysis and conditions you can offer. Failing to plan for the reconciliation is like planning to fail in having someone back. If a simple planning would be that much to you, then think for yourself if does that person really deserves someone like you who can not even just make a plan for something that would also benefit you?
Your plan should be composed of strong and logical ideas. I know that emotions could greatly affect ones judgment into organizing plans, and since you are in pain, that really is inevitable. Now, in order for you to lessen the subjective analysis of the plan, you should first stop the bleeding. Quit the pain. You can just practically ignore it. Also, former flames tend to be really turned off to see the person they left acting so weak and stupid, making them feel more right to just have left the person. So stay strong, make a logical plan, and stick to that game plan.