You were unfaithful and got caught and now your girlfriend that you love dearly has left you. Unfortunately, this tends to happen in many relationships. Usually, cheating is the culprit. For some reason, some guys just can't see the great things they have and cave into their very bad decision making. In the end everyone gets hurt, and you’re left looking for ways to make your girlfriend forgive you.

Now, if you and your girlfriend are both in love with each other, then you both can get through this. However, that doesn't mean that you insist your girlfriend to start working with you on this. She’s going to need some time to settle her feelings. You’re going to need some time feel bad about this whole thing, which you deserve.  However, you can also use this time to your advantage.

While you’re stranded alone by yourself thinking of the bad choice you made, you need to also be thinking about your game plan to getting her back. You can start by figuring out how you will make fist contact with her.

First contact is the most important time in the process of getting back with your girlfriend. Don’t approach her and apologize then tell her you cheated because she didn’t do this, or she didn’t do that, or she didn’t do the other thing. That will unquestionably make the situation worse. Just forget that approach!

A better strategy is to let your girlfriend know that you realize what you did was absolutely wrong on many levels, and with the time you’ve had to yourself you also know how painful it has been without her in your life. Explain that you made a huge mistake and risked something as wonderful as her for something that couldn’t measure up on any scale.

You have to build HER up to make her feel like the SUPERIOR choice between her and the other person you cheated with… only then can you make your way back into her life.

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