Has your ex said those two words that are your worst nightmares ‘its over'… is your safe little heaven crashing all around you, does it feel like your world has stopped revolving? Well the truth is its not really over yet because nothing in this world is 100% impossible.

Here are some necessities that should be done in order to bring your ex back into your arms where they belong.

REMINISCES

The first thing to do is to reminiscise, remember all that you shared and all that you did together, the good and happy times that kept you two going, this memories are obviously going to be shared by him as well.

The next thing to do is to reflect and in truth find out who is to blame, if he is then the next question to ask yourself is if he is worth it? But if you are to blame then ask if you really think your ex wants you back.

After all said you must ensure that this is what you both want as this would motivate you to getting your ex back.

SPACE

Its not just about giving your ex space ,its also about taking some time off for yourself as this is a necessity for you both to realise how much you mean to each other.

During this time away you need to go back to who you were before  your ex fell in love with you that is rediscover yourself before the relationship.

Enjoy hanging with your friends,go out more often so as not to wallow in self pity and just be yourself.

RECONNECT

This is the final and most vital step in making up and getting back with your ex and this is done after your emotions have been sorted out and you are ready to get your ex back being in the right frame of mind,it is essential to look good when you do this so as to let your ex know that you are holding up well.

It is necessary to bump into him at a good location: either at a grocery store, at the bank, in his friends neighbour hood and so on this contact should be very casual  and also carefully planned on your part.