Do You Want Your Ex Wife Back Now?

Have you been asking yourself that question? As time goes by in a marriage, it's quite possible that both partners start drifting into their own little worlds, without realizing that they are also drifting away from each other. Although the change is usually slow, you might feel as if you just woke up one morning and all of a sudden things were different. All of a sudden your wife doesn't love you anymore.

And now you are asking yourself, how do I get my wife to love me again? While every situation and all circumstances are different, there are some common elements to "lost love" in a relationship.

Ask yourself, are you sure that your wife doesn't love you anymore? Has she told you so? If she's behaving strangely or acting different, this does not necessarily mean she is not in love with you anymore, although it most likely means she's also questioning herself about the matter. Before you go on trying to win back your wife's love, make sure that you have lost it in the first place, or your efforts may only backfire.  In many cases, in order to get your wife's love back, you first need to work on yourself.  Do what you need to do to get your "mojo" back. You may be surprised at how just a little bit of self-awareness will get you in terms of feeling more confident.. As you're going through your make-over, try to distance yourself from your wife.

Of course if you are living in separate households, this is easier. However, if you are still under the same roof, just go on about your life in a detached manner. Don't be mean or cold. Be friendly and positive, but just minimize your contact with your wife. This newer (really, it's the older) you will also spark more interest from your wife. This is the person she fell in love with in the first place. So, if you've been asking yourself, "how do I get my wife to love me again", start by asking yourself, "what can I do for myself now"?

I have found that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse...even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships.