No relationship ever runs smooth and in fact, it can become downright boring. The first excitement of getting to know each other soon turns in to familiarity. That is when you are apt to become too comfortable and let things slip a little. Your boyfriend starts finding other things to do and spends less and less time with you and soon he is gone. This can tear you apart emotionally because you were perfectly content with things. That is where men and women differ. A woman is happy to be with the one they love and feel secure. On the other hand, the hunter gene in men makes them restless and need a challenge now and then.

To get him back and attract your ex boyfriend again , you will have to make him unsure of you. The surefire way to bring him back fast is to make him think you do not need him in your life. Let him have the space or break he said he needed and do not try to get him back. This will surprise him, since he was sure  you would be sitting around waiting for his call. Show him that you can live without him and he will not be so sure that he can live without you. Do the things you always planned to do but got sidetracked by the relationship.

Take up a hobby that always has interested you or do volunteer work. What ever you do, stay away from your ex boyfriend for at least a month. Let him have the chance to start missing you and experience his life without you. If he feels that you may be slipping away from him, he will be attracted to you immediately. By moving on with your life, you are transferring the feeling of loss and rejection to him. It will not be long before he will be the one that will be trying to contact you.

His first attempt to contact you will be by sending an email to ask how you are doing. This will only be to see how fast you will answer him. If you answer right away, he will know that he can take his time about getting back with you. So, do not answer it at all. Your ex boyfriends next move will be to call you, but do not take the call. Let him call for a few days and leave messages. This will make him desperate to find out what you are doing.

You do not want to discourage him, so after a few days call him back and tell him you have been so busy that you just noticed he has been trying to contact you. Be cheerful in your conversation and treat him as you would an old friend. If he asks you why you have been so busy, just tell him you have been doing a lot of things. Keep him guessing and he will be more attracted to you than ever before. Soon he will be chasing you and he will not stop until you are back in his arms to stay.