If you find yourself just sitting and remembering when you and your ex boyfriend were happy and so much in love, don't feel guilty. Women all over the world are doing the same thing. It is only natural to deeply feel the loss of your relationship and wish for it back. This is one of the most emotionally upsetting experiences you will ever have.

The fact that you are still very much in love with your man, will make things look hopeless. All of the advice given by others about forgetting him and finding someone else to love will not be what you want to do. Your only thought is to find a way to get him back in your arms as soon as possible. That is the reason you should ignore your ex boyfriend to get him back and use these tips to win back his love.

Since he broke up with you, ignoring your ex boyfriend may not seem like a good idea. Instead your instincts are urging you to get him to talk about your problems and work on a solution. But if you want him back you cannot think like a woman. You have to think the way he does. By doing that, you will surprise him and he will be confused. That is why it is such a good idea to ignore him. That is about the last thing he will expect you to do. Men always want what they feel is unattainable. That is what attracted him to you in the first place. You seemed unattainable then, but once he felt he had you, he became bored.

You will have to face the fact that part of the cause of the breakup was your fault. By falling so deeply in love with him, you became too available and he started taking you for granted. If you seem unavailable to him again, you will become desirable to him again. So ignore him and act as if he does not exist . Spend time with your family and go out with friends and have fun. Show him that you are not sitting at home waiting for his call.

Seeing you out having a good time will make him feel that you are gradually slipping away from him. This will push another of his emotional buttons. Since men cannot stand to lose what they feel is theirs, your ex boyfriend will come running back and you will win back his love.