When your boyfriend says he needs a break, you may run to your girlfriends for advice. Many times they will tell you not to worry because he is falling so deeply in love with you he is just scared. That probably is not true. When your boyfriend pulls away from you chances are he is breaking up with you. When he says he needs a break, that is only what he considers a kind way to do it. But if you are still very much in love with him, you do not have to lose him. Take these crucial steps fast and learn what to do to get him back.

Your natural instincts will be urging you to fight back, when your boyfriend pulls away. You will want to try to convince him that he is making a big mistake. But he will not be in any mood to listen. Any contact with your ex right after a breakup will only lead to more hurt and rejection for you. You are much better off to show him that you do not need him and move on with your life. So accept the fact that he wants time away from you and give him the break he wants .

When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend was counting on the fact that you still love him. This allows him to take his time, have some fun, check out other women and if he does not like what he sees, you will be waiting. You need to take that security away from him quick. Go out with friends and be seen having a good time. That will show him that you are not sitting at home moping around and waiting for him to call. It will also serve notice to him that he could lose you.

When your boyfriend pulls away, you need to show him that you can pull away too. If he sees that you are no longer within his grasp, you will be more desirable to him. Seeing you living your life without him, will make him wonder if he wants to live his life without you. He will also feel that since you are not trying to get him back that you are somehow rejecting him. When a man feels rejected he becomes desperate to get back what he feels he has lost. Soon your ex will begin doubting his decision of breaking up with you and taking a break will not be as important anymore .