So you broke up with him or he broke up with you and now you’re wondering if he still likes you. This is a very common problem for relationships that seemingly had a good thing going. There is also a very common indicator that feelings still remain. This indicator isn’t 100% accurate, but if you were a betting person, you’d probably be happy with the odds of it being correct.

What am I talking about? I’m talking about the communication that is taking place between your Ex and your friends, family, co-workers, anyone that shares a connection to you. I’m not saying become intrusive or an eavesdropper or anything like that. Just be keen to what you are hearing because if you did have friends in common, or your Ex and family member continue to communicate, then you’re likely to be the subject of some of the conversations, especially if your Ex still has interest in you.

Those that typically have lingering feelings for their Ex have a hard time not knowing what is going on in their Ex’s lives. Now, I’m not talking about stalkers. I’m talking about an Ex loving partner that’s showing interest in your well being.  They may be asking your family, friends or co-workers very casual questions like:  How is Jill (you) doing lately? Does Jill have any new boyfriends in her life? How is she taking the break up? Does she still like me? Etc.

You may also want to examine your feelings for your Ex boyfriend. The mere fact that you’re asking yourself this question may indicate that you still have lingering feelings yourself. This is perfectly ok. Two loving people can have a fall out and separate, it happens all the time. That certainly doesn’t have to mean they fall out of love with one another. But the real question becomes, do you want to reconnect with your Ex?

My Ex left me and I had the same feelings. I could have done nothing but then I would have lost her forever, so I chose to take action to get her back.

See my story on how I won my Ex back .