Did she lose interest in you recently? That's a question that no man who is in love wants to consider. There's a definite and unmistakable shift in a relationship when the woman begins to fall out of love with her partner. Things change and even if she claims that her heart still belongs to you, you can feel the difference. Trying to put your finger on it and define it can be almost impossible. Instead you're left to live in a relationship that you know is heading down a slippery slope towards an eventual breakup. If you're feeling confused about your girlfriend and you're certain that she's pulling away, there is some advice that will prove very valuable to you. You've got to stop the downward spiral before it's too late.

One very important thing to remember when you feel that your relationship with your girlfriend is falling apart is to put her needs about your own. This is crucial and it's not something that most men even consider. Right now your girlfriend may be feeling that her needs are being pushed aside. If she's tried to talk to you about her feelings and you keep telling her that everything will be fine, she'll feel rejected and silenced. You need to listen to her. That includes acknowledging what she wants. If she's told you that she believes some time apart is warranted so you can both get a handle on your feelings, agree with her. Whatever it is that she feels is necessary is what you must be giving to her. Respecting her is paramount right now. Without respect the relationship won't survive .

Relationships grow because the two partners grow with it. As we mature we begin to better understand ourselves including our strengths along with our flaws. You should honestly take a look at your behavior and conduct in the relationship and the part it's played in the current problems you two are experiencing. If your girlfriend has been vocal about what she wishes was different or if she's asked you to consider changing something, now is the time to do that. A man should never alter who he is as a human being for anyone, but we can all make improvements. Take her criticisms to heart and then start working on improving who you are. When she sees that you're making the effort to become a better person, she'll be touched by that. She needs to know she's worth it.