How do I get back together with an ex boyfriend ? That's a loaded question, isn't it? If you're the one asking it obviously you have some lingering feelings for your ex. You think about him and you wish the two of you were back together again, right? The problem is that you don't quite know how to make it happen. Fortunately with the right insight and some proven advice, you can get him back before it's too late and he meets someone else.

Right now chances are very good that your demeanor with your ex boyfriend isn't what it should be. Most women who are still in love with an ex make it well known. You may have resorted to crying or pleading with him for another chance. He sees you as someone who is always overly emotional and this may have even resulted in him pulling back more. If that does sound like you, you have to change that right this second. You need to show him that you're strong and completely capable of accepting the end of the relationship. If you can do that, you'll impress him and you need that to happen.

You've also got to show your ex boyfriend that you can live without him. If he feels that you've picked up the pieces of your life and are moving forward, that will impact him. He'll come to the realization that you aren't going to put your life on hold to wait for him. It's important that he understands that.

In the days and weeks following the break up you need to remain friendly with your ex boyfriend. Don't pick fights with him because you're feeling frustrated by the break up. Also, don't try and do things like making him jealous to get him to want you again . Instead, just be a good friend to him. Keep in touch with him without seeming like you're stalking him. Don't bring up the break up. Instead, talk about general things and always wish him well at the end of the conversation.

By acting mature and becoming a trusted friend to him, you'll be showing your ex boyfriend that you can indeed move forward from your split with him and still be compassionate and caring. Once the dust has settled and his emotions have a chance to calm down, he'll start to remember the good times you two have shared. All those romantic feelings will come rushing back and he'll be the one wishing he could have a future with you.