Do you still want to get your boyfriend back?Even though he broke your heart do you still love him and want to get him back? You do know that every day couples do get back together and overcome even the most unbelievable odds. There are even couples that get back together even though both parties mutually agreed that breaking up was a good idea. It seems impossible and you might wonder how they do it.

The secret is in their chemistry. Do you remember what it was like when you first met your boyfriend or when you realized that he held some sort of special power over you? There is just something special about him that you find simply irresistible and no matter what might happen between the two of you he will always have a special place in your heart. That is called chemistry.

It doesn't matterif you don't see him for ten years, when you two finally do see each other again there is something magical about him that speaks to your very being. It doesn't matter how much you argue or how aggravated you get with the stupid things that he does, you will always love him no matter what. He can drive you crazy with his annoying habits or his thoughtlessness, you will always love him.

But did you know that there is a very good chancethat he feels the same way about you? Right now he probably won't admit it but rarely are these feelings held by only one person in a relationship. Rarely is one person crazy in love with someone… with this type of chemistry, and the other person just feels lukewarm about their partner. Chances are deep down inside your boyfriend does feel the same way about you.

Of course, right now you are broken up. His defenses are up and he is consciously making an effort to feel nothing for you or remain angry with you. It does take a lot of effort but guys can be rather stubborn sometimes so right now it might be best just to let him cool off a little bit. Confronting him with any talk of wanting to get back together will only make things worse and prolong the breakup.

The best advice right nowwould be to allow him a little space to cool off and when the time is right initiate contact with him again. A simple phone call to check on him and see how things are and how he is doing is all that might be necessary. No pushing or convincing will bring him back so avoid any talk about the breakup or wanting to get back together. This will only drive him further away and make the process that much more difficult.

When you do talk with him againallow the confidence that you have inside to show through. Let the love that you have in your heart for your man shine through in the form of a genuinely caring smile and kind words. Make him remember why he fell in love with you in the first place by being wonderful and not by trying to convince him to change his mind and come back to you. Soon you will find that the chemistry that you always knew was there will ignite the flame of passion that is no doubt still in his heart yet hidden for a time by anger and stubbornness.