" My girlfriend dumped me! How do I get her back ?" You're searching for an answer to that question because you can't imagine a future without the woman you adore. You're at the point where you'd do just about anything to get her to love you again, right? You've likely been taking relationship advice from well meaning friends and family and it hasn't worked out the way you hoped it would. If all of this sounds like a detailed description of your life, you need to get a plan in place. Without the right advice, you're never going to win back the heart of the woman you love.

Whenever a man says, " my girlfriend dumped me, how do I get her back ?" he's running on emotional overload. He's on the brink of crying most of the time and he's constantly worried that she'll meet someone else. Although it's natural and understandable to feel this way, it's also destructive. If you approach your ex girlfriend when you're feeling sad or depressed, that will come through to her. She'll see you as someone who can't handle emotional situations and she'll feel justified in not being with you anymore.

Starting today show her that you're mature and strong. Let her see that you can not only handle the break up, but that you can come through it as a better person. She's expecting to see you as someone who is on the brink of breaking down because you can't fathom the thought of a future without her. If she instead sees a man who is moving forward happier and more at peace, that will sting her. You want that to happen so get your emotions under control.

Giving your girlfriend space may seem like a very bad idea when you're in the midst of trying to win her back, but it's very helpful. Distance really can make the heart grow fonder and it's a wonderful way of allowing her the opportunity to think about what she wants. If you're not right there crowding her every thought, she'll actually begin to think about you more and more. Take a few weeks away from her. View it as a mini vacation. Spend that time having fun and focusing on your own life. If you can do that, she'll start to see just how much she really does need you and it will be her who wants you back .