If your boyfriend dumped you , the feeling of hurt and desperation is overwhelming. You want your ex back fast and that makes you desperate. Add to that the thought that you might never get him back and you are in a state of wild eyed panic. You want to run in every direction at once. You start crying uncontrollably and become an emotional mess. But if you pursue him in this emotional state he will set records getting away from you. You will also leave an impression of a weak, desperate, and out of control individual that he will always remember. You do not want to let him see you this way. Have someone lock you in a room if necessary, but stay away from your man until you can gain control of your emotions.

Once you have control of yourself think of what caused you to become such an emotional mess. You will find that it was caused by shock at being dumped. The fear of being alone and of never getting your ex back. This comes from being human and having feelings. Your ex boyfriend is human also and he has feelings. To get back the boyfriend that dumped you , it will be necessary for him to feel the same as you. He must be made to panic, become desperate and fear that he has lost you forever.

Making your ex have these feelings all begins with dropping out of his life completely. No phone calls, emailing or text messaging. You need to make him wonder what happened to you. Remember that just a short while ago you were a very large part of his life. Being human and having feelings he will soon notice something missing and it will dawn on him how much you mean to him and how foolish he was to let you go. The longer you can keep away from him the more he will miss you. This will soon turn into wanting to see you and he will do what you were told not to do. He will begin calling, emailing and texting you. Ignore him. This will make him desperate and he will come chasing you .

Let him chase you for awhile because a man is happiest when he is on the chase and facing a challenge. Be a little hard to get. Do not carry it to extremes or he might give up. You know how you caught him in the first place so use the same tactics again and you will soon have your ex back.