After a breakup, you may find yourself sitting in the middle of a mountain of tear stained tissues and keep saying ' I wish my ex boyfriend would miss me '. Your heart is breaking and all of your dreams a future with the man you love have vanished. This is a real tough time for you and it can make you do things you ordinarily would not do. For instance you may call your ex day and night and beg him to love you again. That is understandable because you feel you are losing the most important person in your life.

Your family and friends tell you to forget him and move on with your life. This might surprise you, but that is very good advice. I do not mean that you should give him up forever, that might be a big mistake. But, in order to get your ex back, you will have to give him up for a while and make him think you are moving on. By saying you wish your ex boyfriend would miss you, what you are saying is that you want him to feel the pain you are feeling.

Rejection is a very hard emotion to handle and that is what makes you so desperate to have him back. If you can make him feel the same rejection you are feeling he would set a new speed record getting back to you. So, you need to make him have the same emotions of loss that you are feeling. You still love the guy, so you do not want to be cruel, but in order to make him miss you , he will have to feel rejected. This might seem impossible since he broke up with you, but it is not.

He might not talk to you if you call him, so the best way to reject him is to send him an email. In the email, thank him for the good times you had together and then say that you are glad that he initiated the breakup. Say that you had been considering breaking up with him for some time, but did not want to hurt him. Thank him again and wish him well. When he reads the email he will be shocked and start having second thoughts about the breakup. He will start to feel the emotion of rejection and begin to miss you.

After you send the email, make yourself scarce for a while. Your ex boyfriend cannot miss you if you are around all of the time. Do not have any more contact with him and stay busy with friends and family, so you will not get the urge to call him. Give your ex time to see how much he needs you in his life and he will realize he still loves you. When this happens he will soon be reaching out to you again .