Unrequited love is painful. Loving something that was once yours might be even more so because you "know" what it as like to BE loved. So is there perhaps some big secret that willmake your ex girlfriend love you back again?

The act of making someone love you is rather manipulative. It can be done but not in this article. Here we'll discuss the sincere and honest ways that you can harness to make your ex girlfriend love you back...

Have Enough Love Within Yourself

Do you think you deserve that love to be returned to you? If you're a good, kind hearted soul, you'll know that love is attracted to you only if love is pouring out from you to begin with. This does not mean, stalking your ex girlfriend or going out of your way to please her. There is a difference between love and infatuation. Be careful of your intentions and if you truly love your ex girlfriend, you'll know that she only deserves the best.

Can you be the best you can be?

Being Yourself

Everyone has heard that in order to attract someone you need to be yourself first. This is true, but often we can get lost when how society thinks we need to be in order to attract. I don't suggest you go around unwashed and smelly because for some reason you think that is being yourself.

Being yourself is about bringing out the BEST of you, without all the other crap that you're scared you might be. The other stuff isn't you. You need to dig a little deeper.

Understand Women

Your ex girlfriend isn't much different from you. The only that is different is that men and women will communicate their wants and needs differently. Research about what women want, what makes them tick and how their mind differs compared to men. This will help you enormously in your future and current relationships with women.

Making your ex girlfriend love you back is about loving yourself first and attracting her back through those qualities. It's also about wooing the girl and knowing the right buttons to go after.

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