Being in love with your ex boyfriend after a breakup can cause you to just sit and dream of the past when you were together. Everything will seem so wonderful. You were both so much in love and you thought it would last forever. These dreams can help you get through the days and nights without him, but it will not bring him back. You can have him back and your life can be whole again. All you have to do is use these proven tips to get your ex back .

The first thing you have to do is to become desirable to him, if you want your ex boyfriend to be the one begging you to take him back. That might seem impossible to you right now because of all of the hurtful words you exchanged during the breakup. But if, you can forgive and forget what he said, he can do the same. In fact, you might be surprised that he is feeling the same way you are feeling. He will never tell you that because men are not good at saying they are sorry, but you can apologize to him.

First you will have to get your emotions in check and be strong and mature enough to make the apology without crying and begging. Telling him you are sorry about your part of the breakup may not be easy for you if you feel he caused it. But, you have to put those feelings aside if you want your ex back . Besides that, it might be the only way that you can get his attention and clear the air. Getting an ex back sometimes requires a little sacrifice.

Your main purpose is not the apology anyway. You want to tell him that you have been doing a lot of thinking and you can see his reason for wanting to end the relationship. By saying this, you are giving him the impression that you are alright with ending things and moving on. It will make him happy that you understand him, but he will also feel that you do not need him anymore. In a way, this will make him feel that you are rejecting him and that will not sit well with him.

After you have apologized, you should have no more contact with him. Let him think over what you told him and the more he thinks the more he will realize how much you mean to him. Focus on your family and friends and let your ex see that you can have a life without him. Seeing you living your life so well will make him wonder if he can live his without you .