If you love a man you're no longer with chances are you've come to wonder what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back. As women we understand the importance of picking just the right thing to say to him that we believe will influence what he's feeling. Quite often we let our emotions make this decision for us and sadly we end up kicking ourselves afterwards when we realize what a horrible mistake that is. There is actually one crucial thing that you must say to your ex if you stand any chance of a future that includes him as your romantic partner.

"I agree," may seem like an odd thing to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back , but it works wonders. Those two small words can actually change his mind and cause him to feel a rush of emotions that he wasn't anticipating given the circumstances. Consider the fact that your ex boyfriend is likely very aware of the fact that you still love him because you've told him. He's expecting you to put up a fight and try and win him back. He's prepared for all the late night phone calls, the long love letters and the small gifts all designed to pull at his heart strings. Those things may work if the situation was reversed and he was trying to win us back, but that's not the case. You have to learn how to press the trigger inside your boyfriend's mind and heart that will make him crave to be back with you. Agreeing to the break up is the best way to do that.

Men cannot stand rejection of any kind. If a man is losing at anything he'll work that much harder to be more successful. The same is true of relationships. Since he was the one doing the rejecting, you were the one trying to get him back. If you reverse those roles, and you tell him that you're okay with the break up, he'll be the one feeling rejected. To add fuel to the fire, smile at him and wish him well. Then don't contact him for a few weeks. That man will think of nothing but you for the duration of your time apart. Once he senses that he can no longer have you, he'll want you back . It's simple and effective male psychology.