This article is going to address three specific ways to save your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend. These techniques may seem illogical to you and counterintuitive to everything your mind is telling you, but they have been proven to work over and over.

It is difficult to save a relationship. It will not be an easy road, so knowing some specific techniques that have worked for others will help a lot. You will always have the worry in the back of your mind that you are going to blow it and make the wrong move, losing your boyfriend or girlfriend forever. Once you learn just three "get my ex back" techniques you are going to be in a more positive position to get your love back. You will be holding the reigns.

You will feel like you know the right thing to do and don't need to know these three techniques. Unfortunately what feels like the right thing to do usually is not. To solve any difficult problem you sometimes need to take another path, and one that seems counter to what you are thinking. Getting a boyfriend or girlfriend back is no different. It is a problem that you are looking to resolve. When you feel like calling your ex and either begging, pleading or arguing your point is exactly when you need to stay more calm and don’t do it. When you feel you are about to explode with conversation to your ex, and want so much to talk up a storm to them, you need to cool it and refrain from doing it.

Many of you will have never seen the 3 techniques before, so be warned that they may feel wrong to you. But they have been proven to work over and over in a very effective way, even in the most difficult of relationships. So, are you ready to get back your ex girlfriend or boyfriend?

Method or Step #1

The first thing you will need to do is accept that your Ex has ended the relationship. You need to agree with it or at least appear to agree with it. It will be hard to do and you will have to fight your instinct to immediately call your ex up or visit them, and pour your heart out. It will be an internal battle, but you can do it.

To understand why you need to accept the breakup you need to keep in mind how it will help get your boyfriend or girlfriend back. What you are doing is giving your ex time to miss you and respect you. They might be mad at you for some reason, and if you had been bugging them about getting back together they may be especially upset with you.

Method or Step #2

For this second method you need to cut off all communication with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend. Don’t be discouraged, this does really work! First off, this is one way you will learn to accept your breakup and get used to it. It will also show your ex lover that you are serious and mean business. They will be curious as to what you are doing.

By not talking to your ex you are getting them to miss you being around and also a little time for them to get over the relationship as well. Also you will be more relaxed as you approach Method #3, since you will have time to calm down and think.