We all know how painful a break up can be. Even if we have not personally experienced it, seeing others going through a break up is a very painful moment. Unfortunately what we see is sad, most will just give up on any chances of getting their ex back because moving on is the easiest solution...

I know you are not like these people; you want to fight for your love and get your ex back in your life. Good news is that almost all break ups can be reversed when you have the right "tools" in hand. I hope this will motivate you a little bit more to make a bigger effort to get back your ex.

First thing you must understand is that it will not be easy to get back together with your partner. You will need to follow some kind of plan for things to work out for the best. Actually the method I am going to tell you about is a proven one and has already helped thousands of couples around the world when they thought their relationship was over for good. So, your chances of getting your ex back are pretty high.

I am going to share with you a few of the mistakes that you should avoid along the way. I do not mean that if you have done any of the following you will not get your ex back but if you avoid these mistakes, you will probably be in your ex arms in less time than you think.

Do not make yourself seem needy. I understand how you desperately want to show your love to your ex and telling them how much you love them and cannot live without them. But this is what you need to avoid at a time like this. You both need some time apart. Also show your ex that you respect his/her decision, he/she wanted to be away from you; let it be that way.

Do not try to make your ex jealous. This is the worse thing you can think of doing. Many people think if they try to make their ex partner jealous, they will crawl back to them. But this is a mere misconception. If you use jealousy to get your ex back, all that it is going to do is show your ex that you have decided to move on with your life and he/she should do the same. I am sure this is not what you want. Better avoid at any cost.

I know you are suffering a lot right now. I know how painful it is to be away from a loved but if you avoid these mistakes above, your ex will be back with you much faster. In fact these two are the most common mistakes people do when trying to get their ex back. Now it will only be a question of time.