We've all had pain in our heart after going through relationship breakups, and
we're left with a choice.

We either go on and learn to live our life on our own, or we try to figure out
how to get our love back. Which ever way you decide to go is up to you. Not
only deciding what to do, you need to choose the right reason to do it. The pain
of a breakup can make you do things that will hurt you even more.

What happened to cause the breakup? Was it something you said or did? Or
maybe your lover did or said something that you reacted to. Maybe it was
something Major that can't be forgiven. It may even be something so shallow
and small that you can't even remember.

There are many, many reasons that people don't stay together in relationships,
sometimes for good reasons, but most times because the relationship was not
worked on to get, and stay, strong by both sides. Remember that each person
involved has an obligation to help the other have a better life.

Any partnership has to be worked on to help keep it strong and fresh. A lack
of commitment by either partner can lead to the end. There are times that a
relationship should end, due to abuse, or the lack of true commitment by one
or the other.

No one wants to feel like they have no real purpose in the life of another, we
all want to feel like we mean something. We all want to feel like we found
that one person, our sole mate, that we want to spend the rest of our live with.
No one is perfect for everyone, you only need to be perfect for one person.

If you feel that you found your sole mate, and the relationship breakups, then
you have an obligation to yourself to do whatever you can to find a solution
to the problem that caused the breakup, so you can live your life the way it
was meant to be lived, with your sole mate.

The times we live in today are tough enough without losing the person that
was meant to be by our side for the rest of our lives. If there is something
you can do to get your lover back in your life, then you should do all you
can do.