Searching for ways to get your ex girlfriend back can be downright confusing. You get all these tips and pieces of advice that all seem to contradict one another and the next thing you know, you are back at square one, trying to figure out what you can do to bring her back to you. Before you get yourself all flustered, there are some proven ways to get your ex girlfriend back that work out quite well in most situations.

Now, you do have to know that if you were exceptionally bad to your ex girlfriend, that getting her back might be an impossibility. And to be truthful, that is not necessarily a bad thing. After all, there is always a lesson to be learned and sometimes you just cannot undo the WRONG in every situation.

I will assume that you were not exceptionally bad to her, and that things just kind of flamed out at the end. This is pretty common, and can be turned around rather quickly.

Here are 4 tips to get back the love you lost:

1. Accept responsibility with yourself over the mistakes that you may have made.

I am not saying that you need to go write a ten page letter to your ex girlfriend or anything like that. But, you do need to be truthful with yourself and accept any things that you might have don wrong. We all make mistakes, especially in relationships, so don't beat yourself up over it.

2. Be cool with the fact that you are broken up with her right now.

The reason for this is, if you are angry or have a lot of resentment, it's going to end up showing and probably get in the way of you getting her back. I know that you do not want to have that happen, so you have to become cool with the fact that things have indeed turned out the way that they did. This is not saying that you need to be happy about it, just be cool and don't live in a fantasy world where you think you are still together with her.

3. Start interacting with her in SMALL amounts of time.

There's no need to think that you need to spend an entire day with her, or that you should talk for hours on the phone with her. It's much more effective to start out in small blocks of time and then work your way up. That way, you are a lot less likely to end up saying the wrong thing at the wrong time, which can happen a LOT.

4. Work with a proven system for getting back a girlfriend.

And really, it should be designed specifically for a man and not some all around relationship guidebook. This is a specific situation, and it needs a specific solution. Remember that it is worth it to have a proven plan if you don't want to face the possibility that you might NEVER get back with her.

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