To bring your girlfriend back to you, you might assume that you need to go out and buy her things or to get down on your knees and apologize and plead with her. Neither of these choices is going to be effective at making her want to get back with you. You can empty your bank account and end up losing your dignity, but getting her back like that just is not going to happen.

Some guys will think that bringing back their girlfriend is something that only happens through luck. They hope that it might happen, but a part of them has a really hard time grasping that it is not luck, but certain actions that you take that will bring her back. You don't want to shortchange yourself and rely on luck alone.

Here are 3 easy things to do to bring her back to you:

1) You need to make her see YOU as a man that she respects.

This is why it is so counter productive to try and buy her love back or to lose your dignity by getting down on your knees and begging her to come back to you. The truth is, if your ex girlfriend does not respect you, then she is not going to come back. She might feel bad about the situation and even a little guilty, but she is not going to return.

2) You need to make her fear losing YOU for good.

Right now, you are probably a little fearful that you are going to lose your ex girlfriend for good and that is why you want to bring her back so badly. Well, you need to make her feel the same way. If she starts to fear that YOU could be lost for good, then she will be a lot more receptive to the idea of reconciling.

3) You need to understand what psychological techniques to use to bring her back.

Most guys will try to use psychological tricks or techniques to get back their ex girlfriend, but they will do it all wrong. They will try to use things like coercion or manipulation to get her to come back, when the reaction ends up being quite different. She will end up feeling resentment towards you, and that is going to make her shut you out for GOOD!