So you’ve spilt with your boyfriend and now you’re wondering if he still has the “hots” for you. Okay, so now you know I’m a child from the 80s. LOL. Well, let me just say some boyfriends’ breakup and never make any types of signs or gestures that they have any lingering feelings, but many do, so you’re in luck.

Communication with friends and/or family is one of the most common indicators that your boyfriend may still have an interest in you. This can be direct communication like an email from your boyfriend, a phone call, a letter, etc. Anything where they try to contact someone to talk about you – your personal life, your dating life, how your handling the break up, anything along those lines.

Perhaps you’ve noticed your friends saying “Hey, I just heard from your Ex boyfriend yesterday and he was asking about you”. Or maybe your Mother commented on him calling last week just to chit-chat. These are suspect.

Sometimes the communication isn’t so obvious like a phone call. Instead, they may opt for the “accidental run in” with you or a family member or friend. This allows them to perhaps get information without looking desperate. Of course, these could be an accident as well, but if they keep happening, they might very well be intentional.

You may want to ask yourself if you still like your Ex boyfriend? If so, maybe you should be more direct and ask him about his feelings. Maybe you had a good relationship and broke it off over something petty that escalated more than you/him wanted. Sometimes good relationships end for the wrong reasons.

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