Are you trying to figure out how to get your boyfriend back, but don't seem to be getting anywhere? That's because you've never been taught what to do in a situation like this. Your attempts to win him back are probably pushing him away. Getting back together with your boyfriend is a lot easier than you realize, you just need to learn how he thinks and use that to your advantage.

It's in a man's nature to want what he can't have. If your attempts to get back together with him have been failing, it's probably because you're trying too hard. Your ex boyfriend see's that you're chasing him and he's feeling pressured. Any time a guy feels pressured, his natural reaction will be to resist.

Calling him every day, sending text messages and emails, trying to convince him to take you back and other behaviors like this are only making your situation worse. You make think that you're just expressing how you feel, but now is not the time. Right now you need to create a situation where he misses you. How can he miss you if don't give him any space?

Instead, try doing the opposite. Stop contacting him entirely. A couple weeks, maybe even a month of zero contact will do two things: It gives him a chance to miss you and it gives you time to calm down and get your head clear so you can come up with a plan that actually works.

If you want to learn how to get your boyfriend back, stop making the mistake of trying too hard. Work with his natural instincts and create a situation where he misses you and doesn't feel pressured.

Can you win him back ? Absolutely! But... you there is definitely a right way and a VERY WRONG way to go about it. Learn the right way. Check out more free tips at: Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back and find out EXACTLY what you need to say and do to save your relationship (even if you're the only one trying.)