" My girlfriend dumped me! How do I get her back ?" Sounds familiar, doesn't it? If you recently were dumped by the woman you love, take heart. It doesn't mean the relationship is completely over. There are plenty of things a man in this situation can do to change what his ex feels. If you're not ready to throw in the white towel of defeat on your relationship, don't. You can get her back and deeper in love with you than she ever was before. The key is knowing what to say and do.

Whenever a man says, " my girlfriend dumped me, how do I get her back ?" you instantly know he's entrenched in a deeply emotional place. When that happens we tend to do things we normally wouldn't. This is the stage where you can expect a man to call his ex girlfriend repeatedly begging for another chance. He may also camp outside her apartment or place of work for hours hoping to catch her in person for just a minute to plead his case. A romantic as you may believe this is, that's not how your girlfriend views it. She instead sees it as desperation and sees you as weak. Women don't want to be with weak men. That's not appealing to them at all.

Accepting her decision to end things is going to help you much more than fighting against it. Tell her that you're okay with the break up. If you can muster up the emotional courage, you can even say to her that you were considering a break too. Yes, this will hurt her but it will also push the rejection you're feeling into her lap. Rejection is a difficult emotion for anyone to process and it's really the driving force behind wanting someone back. Therefore, if you can get her to feel rejection, you are essentially making her reconsider the break up.

Once this is done you have to stop all contact for a few weeks. You need to let her go and give her time to consider her future without you. If she truly feels that you're on the cusp of moving on, she'll panic a bit and wonder whether you may just be the man for her. You need to stay strong during this time and resist all temptation to reach out and talk to her. Distance is going to be your best ally when it comes to getting her back so find ways to fill your time. The longer you can go without talking to her, the better your chance of her coming back to you.