Crash! Out of a clear blue sky, you're on your own again. All other problems pale into insignificance beside this: How do you get your ex back?

You wonder you didn't see it coming. Not really - well kind-of. And so it goes

You hardly dare think the virtually unthinkable: How do you bring love back into your life? It's not as difficult as it might sometimes appear. Take my word that what it takes isn't screaming genius to get your ex-partner back.

But there are no 100% exact guidelines. People are different. There are though certain broad strategies which work consistently and fantastically well . And at the end of the article I list a site with some amazing resources, the best I've been able to find to help you win love back.

Jealousy games

Just before then, I'll go over a couple of things Not to do. Firstly, play no jealousy games. Unless you want to bury your chances of you and your ex getting back together. When the other party sees through it, and it's when rather than whether, you'll feel silly for having tried.

Blame

Another little game it's easy to fall into is the blame game. Be big enough not to go there. Blame leads to resentment – on your part if you're laying blame and on the other's part when they realise they've been targeted. But the most important part of this is that by blaming someone you're saying that they were top dog in the situations you found yourselves in. This doesn't say much for you now does it?

So rude!

Going right along  with what's just been said is this: don't start saying rude things about your ex. Best not to say it to anyone. One person repeats it to another – and  there goes the whole ball game.

Just know...

Whatever the circumstances, and do this right from the start: just know that everything will work out right. Remember, you're in the driving seat. Trust me, that's the only way to get matters resolved. Don't leave things to chance or fate.

Take responsibility

But do you know what the biggest thing is? It lies back of all we've looked at so far. It could in a way be called the biggest secret. It's responsibility. Take responsibility for what happened. If you do that you don't lay blame. You'll be less inclined to be jealous; and when you win love back, there'll be more pride.

Because you know how come things got resolved so well. You take responsibility for the outcome. That's your starting point. Then somehow – and you won't always be sure precisely how, as if my magic things sort themselves out so you win your ex back.

But take responsibility for doing some  precise steps additionally. Simple, straightforward and consistently workable if what you want is to get your ex back . You'll find those resources here: