Getting dumped is tough and emotionally draining and often you're not even going to be sure why it is happening to you. If you just can't stop thinking about how to win your ex back, calm down and take a deep breath.

I want to reveal 3 secret steps to getting an ex back that will save you from spiralling out of control.

Secret #1 - Exes more often than not, do NOT make any sense. They will do one thing and say another. Give you attention and then take it away. Confuse the hell out of you. The REAL truth is they STILL CARE and their internal conflicts are starting to show on the outside.

What can you do? Believe me, 90% of the time, an ex will still have strong emotional attachments to their partners, whether they show it or not. This step is one if not the most important - you MUST show you're STRONG and not fall weak to their every bec n call. You still have needs and wants, don't be weak and give in to your ex just because you want them back.

Secret #2 - You must be willing to use psychological pulls to plant a seed in your ex's mind. What is this psychological pull? Well, you need to give them an element of shock and surprise.

If you've been the one who has done all the chasing up to this point, suddenly go the opposite direction. Give them NO attention at all.

If you have just been ignoring your ex completely, then give them a call, a letter, something! Break the current pattern you're on and leave them wondering. You don't want them to know and predict everything that is going to happen between you.

You want to plant that seed to get them chasing after you.

Do you know what will REALLY convince your ex to come back to you willingly?

It's not begging or pleading, it's not giving them the cold shoulder, it's not giving them no contact for 30 days and then sending them a letter... nope, the way to get your ex back is so simple, that it's over looked by most.

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