When you ex boyfriend is being stubborn and refuses to have anything to do with you, it can be devastating. If he refuses to acknowledge any attempt to get him back and act as if you do not exist, it can break your heart. But instead of chasing him and playing his game, make him beg for your love .

You might think this is impossible, but it is not. You have to shake him up and make show him that he is not your whole life and that you can do without him just fine. It will not be easy, but if you want to get him back there are certain things you will need the strength to do.

First of all you have to drop out of his life completely for a while. Do not chase him or have any contact with him at all. By chasing him and telling him you cannot live without him, you are just feeding his ego and he will let you chase him forever. You cannot get an ex boyfriend back by crying or begging, they will pull away from you every time.

Drop out of sight and start thinking of yourself. Go to a good salon and get the works. A new hair style, manicure, massage and a tan. Next go shopping and buy some clothes to accent your new look. When you see your ex boyfriend again, you want to be able to knock his socks off. This will improve your self confidence and make you feel great .

Now, that you are looking so sexy and desirable go hunting your stubborn ex boyfriend. Take some friends with you and hit the places where he hangs out. Just let him get a good look at you and flirt with him a little then leave. His jaw will be hitting the floor and he will not be able to believe what he has just seen. But he will know that he had better stop being stubborn if he does not want to lose you.

Your ex boyfriend that is not stubborn anymore will be calling you in the next few days after seeing you. Let him leave a message and call him back in a couple of days. This way you are in control and not appearing too anxious. If he wants to meet you to talk things over, agree. There is no use playing stubborn like him. You want him back so do not blow the opportunity.

When you meet him, let him do most of the talking and make him beg a little, but make it clear to him how much he hurt you. Tell him you would be willing to give the relationship another chance, but insist on being treated with respect .