After a breakup, it is only natural to feel that your ex boyfriend does not love you anymore. You think that if he loved you he could not have left you feeling so alone. What you are thinking is probably not the case. Love does not just die, and your ex still has love in his heart for you . He may be so upset and angry right now that he does not even realize it. But, once he settles down, he will begin to give off clues that he still loves you and you want to be able to recognize them.

But, before he starts giving off these clues it will be necessary that he begins to miss you. In order for him to miss you, you will have to make yourself scarce for a while and have no contact with him. You should resist any urge to call, email or send him text messages. By constantly reminding him that you are still around, he cannot possibly miss you.

With out giving him the space and time to realize he still loves you, it will be impossible to get your ex back. The best way to make him madly in love with you again is to use the same tactics you used to get him in the first place. You did not chase him then and tell him you could not live without him and you should not do it now.

When he begins to miss you, he will start sending out the clues that he still loves you and wants you back. But you must give him this time alone to start having second thoughts about the breakup. Men fall more deeply in love from being away from the person they love. Given this time, he will feel the urge to find out what has happened to you. Your first clue that he still loves you could come from your friends. They will mention to you that your ex boyfriend has been inquiring about you.

The next clue will be when he sends you an email to ask you how you are getting along. If you do not answer it, you will force him to call. If you feel you can talk to him without crying, take his call. However it would probably be beast to let him leave a message and call him back when you are sure you can talk to him in a calm manner.

When you call him back, do not let him discuss things on the phone. Tell him that you should meet and arrange a time and place, this keeps you in control and he is coming to you. When you meet, he will be giving you more clues, such as leaning toward you when he talks. This shows he wants to be as near to you as possible. When you catch him staring at you with a look of yearning on his face, you will know that he is madly in love with you again .