Does the idea of winning your ex back fill your thoughts for practically every waking moment of the day and night? Or are you just in turmoil on the issue? Now isn't the time to lose hope. No matter how desperate things look  now you can turn things around in ways that will surprise you. Really. Congratulations: finding and reading this article was the first step.

Simply A to B to Win Love Back

We'll come to the follow-up steps in a second. As well, I'll put you in touch with some amazing resources. The best site I've found with a game plan laid out in  plain ordinary steps that anybody who can read can follow. A to B: Simple.

Primary Rule. Stay upbeat. There are so-called friends who welcome an opportunity to help anyone wallow in heartache. It's true that a trouble shared is a trouble halved. But anybody who does encourage you to wallow is setting you up for a bigger loss than you've suffered already.

Be Upbeat

So they aren't helping you!  You need to be around those friends who will keep you boosted up. As much as possible – more on that in a moment. This certainly helps in getting your love-life back on track.

Just earlier we spoke of being Upbeat. A major enemy of that is endless analysis: did I do wrong on such and such an occasion? Was it this or that thing that helped drive them away? Trust me, now is not the time for this digging endlessly into supposed wrongness.

Do you know why?  For one thing, there's no end to it. You could be at that round the clock, and never get to a satisfactory conclusion. That is, a conclusion bringing you any nearer to winning back the love of your life.

Sound Advice

One regularly given advice is sound though. At least in the beginning, minimise contact. Pleading to the other party shows you in a poor light. It definitely does not help in winning back the love of your life. It'll push them further way if anything.

For now, leave them alone. Put your attention on having a great time. Those friends you just couldn't seem to fit in over the past many months even recent years. With them, get some fun activity going

When there's renewed contact with your ex-partner you won't come across as needy. Note I said, when, not if. The chances are your ex will be wondering (just as you have of the other) just what you've been up to.

Now Listen

Play things by ear ...You know – listen carefully now – there's so much I'd like to share with you as regards getting back your ex . There's only so much I can tell you in a short article. But  remember the resources I promised you earlier? Study the following, .  Really take it seriously as many others have. You'll be pleasantly surprised at the results. I promise.