When your ex boyfriend and you were a happy couple, there were a lot of little things about him that irked you at times. But, now that you have broken up and he is gone , you see him as perfect and do not want to face the future without him. There is nothing wrong with feeling that way because things always gain in value once they are lost. Now, in order to get your ex back fast, you have to show him that he needs you more than you need him.

If you want to show him how much he needs you, it is important that you do not appear too anxious to get him back. Showing that you are needy and desperate will only make him pull away from you. If you are afraid of losing your ex, don't be. He is not going to be looking for another woman for a while. Your thoughts should be on yourself and not your ex boyfriend.

Feeling that you cannot live without him is an obsession and you are letting him control your life. That is not good for your or your ex boyfriend. In fact that might have caused the breakup. You smothered him and dominated his every minute until he run. It is one thing to love your man and show you appreciate him, but you both need your personal time and a little freedom. If this is part or all of the problem, you will have to change in a hurry and show your ex that you can live without him .

First of all you have to appear to accept the breakup and move on. To do this it will be necessary to give your ex boyfriend up for a while. Have no contact with him for at least a month and occupy yourself with friends and family. Showing him that you are a strong independent woman that does not need him in your life, will get his attention quick. He expects you to try to get him back and if you ignore him instead, he will wonder if you love him anymore. Feeling he has lost you can be a big incentive for him to want you back.

With every passing day, he will find himself missing you more and more. Your ex will feel that you are slipping away from him and this will make him desperate. Think back to the time of the breakup, you were desperate because you thought you were losing him. Now, you have your ex boyfriend feeling the same way. Being without you and realizing you are fine without him has made him see how much he needs you and he will be back in your arms fast .