Heartbroken Songs  -   Use Them To Get Back Together

When you have just broken up with somebody that you love then heartbroken songs are just the songs you want to sing.    They are purposely sad as you only want to hear sad songs, other songs will only serve to the good times you had with your ex.  Why not write your own heartbroken song after your break.

Heartbroken songs have their likely origins when man discovered music and singing as well as to when he discovered broken hearts. So if you find it difficult to write an entire song, you can always write a poem as an alternative.

Or you can send a long letter to your ex and express yourself in this way when you feel that a poem or a song is too difficult to envisage or too distant from what your ex would expect of you.   However, if you can compose a song that relates your feelings you should do so.

When you have received a poem or a song in the past, you know the feeling on receiving it.   Then the idea of you writing your own heartbroken songs may leave your ex surprised and thinking about what is happening.   They will appreciate the effort at least.

If you do like song writing, start with some poetry and then find some music to go with it.  The words should come easily enough, and for the music pick a melody you like and fit the words to this melody.  If you can’t compose your own music find a tune from one of your favorite songs and rewrite the words to fit with the melody.

Not everyone likes song writing, as you know yourself.  Pick out songs from a selection of your preferences   Luckily, there are millions of songs for you to choose from, and you will no doubt have a list of those you like most.   On hearing them, they will probably mean something completely different to you.

Since your break up, your ex will also probably understand them differently.    Prepare a CD for your ex containing all the sad songs you know and send it to them with a letter.   This has the advantage for you of being able to choose the songs you wish should be included

Take some time to choose the songs you send.  Just because the song is about a break up, it may not be the right song to include, as the sentiment behind the song may not be that which you wish to convey.  Choose the right words and songs that are relevant to how you are feeling at the moment.

Begin by playing the really sad songs that you should can find and terminate with a popular romantic song that you like.  If it is a song that your ex also liked all the better, as it will bring back joint memories for you both.

Heartbroken songs exist mostly to help you get over the break up pain you have, but they can also serve to help you get back together with your ex.

Joe Bisley

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