Everything seems to have gone wrong and you are unable to sleep at night because all you can think about is your break up.  All you can think about is how to get over your break up.  We have all been through times of sadness in our lives, following a love affair that has turned sour.  Face reality front on and show your ex that you can be “strong after a break up”.

Men are very possessive animals and they don’t like it when their lover leaves them.

You know there was a reason for the break up, so you must learn to forgive and forget, and above all keep your cool.  Never give your ex the pleasure of seeing you sad.

You are not going to find life easy for the next few weeks.  You can cry to yourself if it makes you feel any better but the chances are you will soon tire of this.  You will eventually realize that nearly everyone goes through a similar stage in their lives, and now is the time for getting ready to move on.

Just because she dumped you, it does not mean that your love life has come to an end.  Get out and enjoy yourself, meet new people and friends you haven’t seen for some tome.  Enjoy being free again while you can.   If your ex sees you looking so great, she may start to be sorry that she ever dared to let you go.

Don’t let your ex start playing her female games, so never go back to her for the odd night stand.  If you do this, it will only make you sadder as you as you have already realized that, by the way that she has behaved, she is not for you in the long term.

For the moment, think about yourself and make some changes that will give you more confidence.  Get some exercise and feel better for it, and raise your ego.  Keep yourself occupied, perhaps with new activities, and as soon as you start to feel you are ready, go out with the girls and get flirting again. Being single is great for a time but you will soon find new opportunities to fall in love.  It is just a matter of time!

Joe Bisley

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