When you have lost the man you love , everyone has their bit of advice. Most of them, in their effort to be supportive, will tell you to forget him and go on with your life. You know that is impossible for you to do because you still love him. You also never knew that you could miss anyone so much. He is on your mind constantly and your life feels empty without him. These feelings are normal after a breakup and these feelings are what make you want your ex boyfriend back. You can get your boyfriend back, but you will have to learn how to make him miss you enough to want you back.

We all seem to have a gene that causes us to have nostalgia. When you miss someone it is because of the memories of the times you shared together. This is nostalgia and it is a very powerful motivator. It is what makes you love your home, friends, and relatives. When you have been away from any of them for a while, you begin to miss them and want to be back home or with your friends and relatives. Without memories, our life would have no substance and we would form no attachment to people, places, or things.

To make him miss you enough to want you back, you have to give your ex boyfriend time for his nostalgia to kick in and when it does, he will begin to miss you and the times you shared. That is why it is vitally important that you give him the space he asked for. If you are always there in person, crying and begging him to come back, how can he miss you. The same goes for calling him or emailing and sending text messages. These will keep him from being able to miss you.

To make him miss you enough to want you back, you need to drop out of sight. Take a vacation or visit out of town friends and relatives. To get your ex boyfriend back , you have to let him experience life without you. Once he feels that there is a void in his life and he comes to realize that you used to fill that void, he will wonder what happened to you.

If you continue to keep your distance for a while longer, he will become as desperate to be back with you as you are to be with him. But, you must resist the urge to fall back into his arms. If you make things too easy, he will take you for granted and think it was silly that he got so upset and desperate for you. To get your ex boyfriend back and keep him, you can never let him be too sure of you again.