We are all creatures of relationships. By the time most of us get into adulthood we've had experience with numerous relationship break ups. All the break ups hurt, some more than others, but then there's the one that takes it to a new level - the one that makes you want to get your ex back any way you can.

See what I did to win my ex back

This is what happens when you're in love and your partner is no longer with you. The pain doesn't seem to get any easier and time only makes you want them more. So what are you to do? Well, you can try to get your ex love back. It happens all the time and it may just happen for you.

The best way to go about doing this is to create a plan. This isn't easy. Why? Because this plan has to include everything that you believe failed in the relationship, including the things you did or contributed to. It can't be all about your ex, if it is, your chances are low to get him or her back.

Think back to the times when the relationship was good. What was different then in comparison to now? Maybe you both paid more attention to each other? Or maybe you did little things that you don't do any longer? Or vice versa?

Look, it's common for couples to experience a decline in the "little things" but that doesn't mean all is lost. Relationships take work and you may have to work to bring some of those things back. It's a small price for lifelong happiness with the one you love.

Create your plan by listing the things that changed, as well as, a game plan on how you can get them back. Pay attention to the details, because when you show this to your ex, when the time is right, your ex will be impressed at the work you put in and see how much you value the relationship. This is a very good start to getting your partner back.