A true Relationship is a bond between two separate like minded individuals. Relationships between two are formed based on psychological and physical attractions and factors. The more the mind is involved the more the relationship becomes strong.

The main reason for a breakdown in a relationship is one party trying to exert excessive control over the other. If you are in a genuine relationship, the first thing you should prepare to accept is the uniqueness of the other individual. All the hell breaks loose when we try to get the other half do act like some one else than being his or her own self. If true love is involved the first thing you should do is to be willing to accept the other half as he or she is.

You and your ex were living and brought up in two entirely different life situations, families. No two people will have the same qualities unless its a very rare situation. We all are diverse being in this magnificent universe.

So in such a world, how can we expect the other half to be like us? This expectation is the major stumbling block in a relationship.

There are enough and more methods to get your ex back using the Law Of Attraction. I will give the most effective 5 tips on how to Use the Law of Attraction to get your Ex back

1. Let go of your attachment to wanting him or her so much. This is a paradoxical situation, as most of you would think that letting go of always worrying and being attached to wanting him or her will let go him or her for ever. But this is not the case, if you are attached to some thing so much, that you cannot live without it, implies that you are lacking that particular thing in your life. Your vibration will project this lacking emotional state to the universe and the Law of Attraction will give you more of what you are focused on, meaning you distance your ex further and further. Simply meaning you don't get him or her.

2. Make up your mind to not worry and fret over the break up and get clear. Let go of all the negative emotions and keep company. Do not be alone. Try your best to be occupied in something. This will let go of negative emotions and you would start to see things in a clear way. You would know what’s to be done next. This may not be easy in the first instance, nevertheless try your best.

3. Visualize you making amends with your ex again. The mental pictures don't need to be very clear, just do your best. But the main thing is to FEEL all the happy, exciting, loving emotions when you visualize. For example, see mental pictures that you are with your ex again. Hear how your ex is speaking loving words to you. Feel how it is making you happy and so on. Law of Attraction is responding to our feelings and not to the pictures that we see in our minds. The main thing is to feel happy that you are back with your ex.

4. Try to do some meditation for about 10-15 minutes a day just to quieting your mind. The mental chatter is the major culprit. You loose your intuition and inner guidance once this chatter is on. If you can reduce the volume of this chatter, you would be able to see things more clearly. You will get inner guidance as to what you should do next and that is the perfect thing to do next. Because your inner self knows every thing about you and it acts for your greater good. Quietening your mind is easy said than done, because any one who has tried meditation will know how difficult it is. Meditation is a great way to activate the Law Of Attraction in your life.

5. Find a Brainwave Entrainment technique and listen to it for at least 30 minutes a day. This will help you achieve most of the above mentioned benefits. It helps quieting your mind within 10-15 minutes of listening. This brings your brainwaves to "Alpha" in no sooner time. And "Alpha" is a very soothing brain wave level to be. Continued listening will drop all bad habits and make you a magnet to activating the Law Of Attraction in your life. This in turn would help you to get your ex back in no sooner time.