Winning back an ex after a breakup is not easy and can be more difficult if you do not know what to do and what not to do. Maybe you have already tried several things but you have not been able to reconcile with him.

The reasons for this failure are that firstly, being dumped by someone with whom you are in love is tragic. You lose control and feel lost. Secondly, there is no real idea of what needs to be done in order to get him back. The result is that you spend and waste time doing unnecessary things and never win him back.

If your ex feels superior in the relationship, you will want to equalize the latter. Sometimes, the person may enjoy making you toil hard to get him back. Therefore, it is better to keep that secret to yourself. Do not let him know that you are working to reconcile with him because you want him back. Stepping back is a vital thing to do here.

Perhaps you now feel that your partner is on the point of leaving you forever. Do not be stressed. On the contrary, accept it and stay calm. Let him go and do not appear desperate about wanting him back. You should keep yourself occupied with activities, hobbies or anything which will not remind you of your ex constantly. If they contact you, say that you are very busy and you need to go to places, just not to give him the impression that you are easily accessible.

Something that you need to understand and avoid is that you should not do favors for him, thinking that he will see how much you love him. This is false because your ex will realize that you keep hanging around him and may get bored with you. Moreover, your ex may take advantage of you, while you may be thinking that you are doing a great job by showing him that you care.