A break up is a common experience that happens to many of us in life. It is often when you suffer during this period that you wonder whether you can reconcile with your ex boyfriend.

This can be a difficult process. However, the most important thing here that you need to know is how to proceed to get the boyfriend back or else, you may drive him away.

But before that, you should clear your mind of any doubt. Ask yourself honestly if you really should get back with your ex. Just because you are temporarily feeling lonely is not a real reason for wanting your ex boyfriend back.

If you do not get that sorted out, you will be confronted to the same situation again, where a break up will be inevitable.

Now, if you find that you have sincere reasons for wanting him back, you can then follow the steps for reconstituting your relationship.

Remember that your relationship has broken up, so take care when planning what needs to be done.

1. You may start by dating someone else to increase your own confidence once again. Be careful, as you will be only dating the person. You are not being asked to engage yourself in solid relationships or marriage.
2. At the same time, you will be able to make a concrete comparison between your previous relationship and the new one. You can make a careful consideration of your situation and make a better decision.
3. It is of utmost importance to know what went wrong in the relationship if you want to get back your ex. If you do not, it will be impossible for you to fix things in your relationship.

You will need to be patient because everything will happen with time. It will be useless forcing things or exerting too much pressure. Things will take place at an appropriate tempo.