If you really think that you and your ex girlfriend are meant to be together, then you should learn how to get her back. Learning how to get her back isn't difficult, but it will take some planning and thinking if you really want to get the best results.

So, here are the 5 tips to getting your ex girlfriend back.

1. Although it may seem a little counter productive when trying to rekindle your relationship, if you want to learn how to get her back, you need to first begin by eliminating communication for a while. This is probably going to be tough and it may feel as if it's killing you, but it will make her want you ever more.

After awhile, she'll begin realizing how much she really wants you and need you. Eliminating communication is one of the biggest and most important step in getting your ex back.

2. The next thing you should do is allow yourself to recover emotionally. You need to take the time to calm down and get under control emotionally. Women don't like men who are clingy, desperate, or needy. So, pull yourself together before you try to get her back.

3. The next step to learning how to get her back is to go hang out with your friends. This may seem like it's counter productive. Hanging out with other people will help take the stress away. And when your ex see that you're hanging out with new people, she will become jealous. She will see that she's missing out on having fun.

4. You need to play it cool and act like nothing is bothering you. It's important if you want to learn how to get her back. She's not going to want you if you are acting depressed. You need to be sure that you are having a good time and show her that you're overcoming the breakup depression.

5. The fifth step is to make sure you look your best. Make sure you are looking good all the time. If you do, she won't be able to resist it. Appearance can play a huge role in showing your ex that you are moving on and feeling great. If you take the time to look good, your ex will start to notice, and will want you.

These are some of the beginning steps to getting your ex girlfriend back. Actually, they're the first steps I followed when I lost my girl. And to be completely honest, they're not my original ideas. I turned to a guy named T 'Dub' Jackson when I didn't know what to or how to get my love back.