You may not believe it, but there are magic words that you can use to get an ex girlfriend back and make her return your phone calls. These words will nearly cast a spell and will certainly make your ex girlfriend feel the desire to return your calls.

Are you very curious to know what are these magic words? Surely, if you are eager to try it out so you can get back with an ex girlfriend, then, read on.

"How to get an ex back?"is one of the biggest questions from both men and women like you who are trying to put their relationship back together again.

So, you asked yourself over and over again: "How do I get my ex girlfriend to return my phone calls, text messages or chat messages?"

There is a complete strategy. But, if you use this technique alone, without looking at the big picture, you may damage your relationship more than if they never ever returned your call.

You have to realize that there are words first that you must not use. These words never really works, so you should try to avoid using them at all.

In fact, it could put you in an awful position. These type of words fall into two categories, which are:

1) The Plead Message

"Amy, please, please call me. This is the 4th time I have called. I really have to talk to you."

2) The Emergency Message

"Amy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

With both approaches, you sounded very desperate, and that is not the way to get back an ex girlfriend at all. You will probably scare your ex girlfriend to run away as far as possible.

The best approach is to use the power of curiosity and self interest to your advantage. It is a fact that two of the most powerful forces in the human mind areCuriosity and Self Interest.

And here's the big secret! When you combine the two, you will have the best strategy that actually works like magic.

Let's look at what you can say using it, that will work most of the time when applied. Example, you made a phone call in a casual friendly manner, saying:

"Hi Amy. It's Bob. I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I really want to thank you in person."

Now, you are using here the power of both curiosity and self interest. Amy could not resist it! Her mind wondering about many things she did, and asking hersellf: "What did I do?", "What does he appreciate from me?" But, it makes her feel good because your message is a positive one.

However, even if this technique is really powerful, it is very important that you have thought carefully of a plan, which is, figuring out what your ex girlfriend did to you that you told her you appreciate. It can be any small thing, but needs to be really credible.

Remember, before you made the phone call, you must already have an underlying strategy. This kind of strategy is being discussed and laid out clearly in the ebook "The Magic Of Making Up", and if you read it, you can follow the system very well.

Once you apply this technique without the underlying strategy and your ex girlfriend will call you back, then the damage is done. You will probably lost your chances of getting back with your ex girlfriend.

So, you should handle the strategy correctly to make it work. What you do before, during and after you get your ex girlfriend to return your phone call is the most important thing than getting your ex girlfriend to return your call. Sounds confusing? Not really. Just, make a plan and follow it.

If you really want to know how to get an ex girlfriend back, then you might want to buy a copy of "The Magic of Making Up" ... Good luck!