How can I make my Ex want me back when I don't understand her?

For most men, understanding how women think and what they want from you is incredibly difficult. Understanding why women breakup with men could be key to saving your marriage so it's very important for you to understand whats going on if you want to get back with your ex.

Sometimes women appear logical but then they contradict themselves. They often say things when really they mean something completely different. Lets face it their brains are wired differently to yours. You need to dig deep to decode what she is really trying to say to you instead of what she is yelling at you. When you understand the most common reason why women leave their man you'll be on your way to making her love you again.

Do women ever say what they really mean? Here is an extreme example to illustrate

When a man cheats on a woman and your wife finds out it's natural to think that that would be the end of the relationship with no going back. This isn't true. If you look around you'll find loads of examples of this happening and the couple get back together again. Sometimes after some time apart, others make up straight away. If this is the case then cheating may not be the root cause of the breakup. It's just a catalyst for something deeper inside the woman that you can't see. So what is it? What is the real reason why so many women breakup with their men?

What do you think that your wife would say to you if she found out that you had cheated on her?

"I can't trust you anymore"<br />
"You're dirty"<br />
"You've been unfaithful to me"<br />

I bet that you could think of a lot more but are any of them the real reason? What is she really thinking? She probably doesn't even know it herself.

What women want in a marriage - They want to be appreciated

First off lets look at what men want in a marriage. You want to be admired don't you? You want your wife to look up to you as a strong and successful provider for her and your family. I think that most men feel this way because it's the way that your brains are wired. It's easy to think then that if you become a strong and successful provider that your woman will admire you for it. Well she might but are you giving her what she wants?

Women want to be appreciated. It's simple and obvious and you probably do appreciate all the little things that she does for you but do you show it? I bet you don't. It probably doesn't occur to you that you need to not only tell her that she's loved and wanted and even needed but you need to show it too.

When a women stops feeling appreciated thats when they will leave you

Women are complicated but they are worth taking the time and trouble to understand how they work and how they think. If you want to get back with your Ex. take a step back, think out of the box and into your woman's head to find out why women breakup with men. When you truly understand this secret you will be on your way to making up.