Contrary to common beliefs, when a couple breaks up, it doesn't necessarily mean it's the end of a beautiful relationship. In fact, if you can convince your ex-girlfriend to come back to you after a breakup, it can be the beginning of a stronger and more beautiful relationship.

The question you're probably asking yourself is, how do you convince your ex-girlfriend to come back to you after a breakup. Sometimes, breakups can get very nasty, but even then we have seen couples getting back together, so why not you. There is no magic spell to make up with your ex, but you have to know that mere words do magic when it's about love.

Believe it or not, the way we use our words to express something, whether it's in a relationship, in a business conference or anywhere else can be such effective psychological triggers that we might think we are controlling the other person. Of course, only experts can do this! You only want to get your ex-girlfriend back and all you have to do is use the power of words to convey your message to her.

"Hi Julia, it's Tom. I'm really sorry, please forgive me. Please come back to me, I beg you!..."

The above is the kind of conversion we DO NOT want you to have or leave in the voice mail of your ex. Julia will think you're such a weak person and she can easily have you in a snap whenever she wants, so there's no rush for her to come back to you. She will very likely not call you back.

"Hi Julia. Tom here. I know we have broken up and I just wanted to tell that I appreciate the things you have done for me and would like to thank you. Can we meet some time?"

In the above line, you have triggered curiosity and self-interest. Julia is wondering what are the things she has done for you (it can be anything she did when you were together) that you appreciate and want to thank her for. If you were Julia, wouldn't you call back or meet your ex?