How to get over someone you still love - Do you really want to move on or are you still hoping to get back together? At this stage of your life, you need to remember that there are no impossible situations. It's a matter of getting your thoughts together and working out what you really want to do.

Suffering a breakup is one of the most traumatic experiences that a person can endure. If you are in a position where you find that you are continually wondering how to get over someone you still love, my heart goes out to you. To be perfectly honest, there are no magic answers or miracle cures for a broken heart and each person is different. The journey of getting over a lost love can be a short one but then again, there are times when the journey may never end.

It is amazing that some people have the ability to move on very quickly after a breakup and enter into a new one without batting an eyelid. Sadly, there are some of us who are real 'softies" and really struggle to get over a lost love. They find themselves going to pieces if a particular song is played on the radio or when a lost love's name is mentioned. They can become emotional at any time and they find they are continually depressed and alone.

Obviously, time is a great healer and that is very easy to say, particularly if you are the not the one going through the suffering. It's a different story if you are the one trying to figure out how to get over someone you still love. If your pain is that bad, it may pay you to undertake some counseling. That may not solve your problem but it may help to ease your pain as you try and move on. Be gentle with yourself and don't try and over analyze why you are in this position. It has happened and it's time to start a new chapter in your life.

Hopefully, before it came to all of this, you sought some form of counseling as a couple to see if you could work things out. Many couples do, but sadly, some relationships fall by the wayside without the couple engaging in any form of help. That is a really sad situation, as counseling is a proven way of getting troubled relationships back on track. If it's too late for your relationship, then you need all the love and support of those around you to help you get through your present position. If you think there is any hope of reconciliation at all, then do your best to engage in some form of relationship counseling and encourage your partner to give it a go.

Getting back to the original problem of how to get over someone you still love, take your time, do your grieving and when the time is right for you, do your best to find someone else to love. You deserve to be loved and to find a new love. One day down the track and hopefully, sooner rather than later, you will never have to worry ever again about how to get over someone you still love.

If you are going through hard times, please understand you are not alone and that there is help available right here. If you love your partner and there is a chance of getting back together, don't let it all slip away without watching our Free Videos .

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