"I want to know how to make my ex girlfriend want me back ." Many men utter this phrase each day. It's incredibly difficult emotionally to go through a split with your girlfriend only to realize that she's the woman for you. Unfortunately, it's never as simple as telling her that you've made a mistake and you want her back. You have to use certain techniques to show her that her life won't be complete unless you are in it.

Accepting the break up is essential if you have any hope of getting back together with your ex girlfriend. This may seem to go against everything you are feeling if you want her back, but it will help you. If you fight her tooth and nail on the break up, you're showing her two important things. First, you are demonstrating to her that you're immature emotionally. There isn't a woman alive who wants to have a future with a man who throws a tantrum when she breaks up with him. Also, you want her to feel the sting of rejection that you are currently feeling. The only way to do that is to accept the break up and show her what it feels like to lose the person she loves. This works whether she broke up with you or the other way around.

When you are pondering the question of how to make my ex girlfriend want me back you likely never imagined cutting off all contact with her as a means to getting her back. This is an important step that you shouldn't skip. Cutting off contact means just that, you have to stop talking to her altogether. Don't make any phone calls to her and absolutely no emails or text messages. You need to create an empty void in her life that you used to fill. You cannot do that if you're constantly trying to get her to talk to you. Instead, take some time for yourself. Make it, at minimum, a few weeks. Do everything in your power to resist the urge to contact her. If you can follow through on this you'll suddenly hear from her. Likely she'll tell you that she just wanted to talk and from there it's just a few short steps to her telling you that she's reconsidering the break up.