Is breaking up the end?  Not always.  How many people do you know who've gotten back together with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend?  Probably a lot.  And the reason people give love a second (or third, or fourth...) chance is because their feelings and emotions don't immediately disappate the moment they decide to end a relationship.

If you were recently at the receiving end of a break up, you're probably wondering if you can get your ex back.  In the effort to do just that, you've started looking for signs that your ex still loves you.  The truth is, even after breaking up with you, your ex boyfriend or girlfriend will still look over their shoulder to see how you're doing.  They'll still feel that same emotional attachment they felt during the relationship, only they'll be trying to ignore or bury it in the interests of moving forward.

A break up is really nothing more than a decision.  To get back together with your girlfriend or boyfriend, all you need do is get them to reverse that decision.  And knowing whether or not your ex is still in love with you can go a long way toward helping them see how much they really do care about you.  By drawing out and playing upon those suppressed feelings and emotions, you can start your ex thinking about giving your romance another shot.

Why Does My Ex Still Call Me?

Your ex calls you for a pretty simple reason: they're unsure.  Even if your ex is making up excuses for calling you, the very fact they keep getting in touch says a lot.  An exboyfriend or exgirlfriend who's serious about moving on will generally avoid you as much as possible - especially such direct contact.  But whenever an ex is emailing, text-messaging, calling, or otherwise?  He or she may be re-examining their feelings for you.

What If He or She is Asking About Me?  Does My Ex Still Love Me?

Inquiring about you can take many forms, but most of them are good.  Is your ex contacting your friends to ask about your lovelife?  This is a huge sign that he or she is still interested.  Likewise for an ex who's sending his or her own friends out to check up on you.  Most people who are considering getting back together - or at least want to maintain that option - will send out "feelers" to see what you've been up to, who you've been hanging out with, and to find out whether or not you're still available.

My Ex Contacts Me, But Seems Angry Sometimes

Ah, this is a good one.  Your ex has conflicting thoughts.  They're questioning their decision to break up, and a huge part of them would like you back.  But at the same time, another part of your ex wants to stick out the break up.  The two sides are battling for control, and your ex is hiding their true feelings for you... fromthemselves.  This is a positive sign your ex may be ready to get back together, but it's also a sign that they're not fully ready just yet.

If you want your ex back, you need to be somewhat proactive in your approach.  A boyfriend or girlfriend who's on the fence about whether or not to rekindle your romance might sometimes need a push in the right direction.  There are some great methods and techniques for getting back in your ex's head again, and for getting them to turn their attention back to you.  Learning what these are can help accelerate your reconciliation, and strengthen the new relationship you build together.